Don't get discouraged! Like you, I did my Kegles religiously six weeks prior to RARP, was in excellent shape, was having the procedure performed at a center of excellence by a nationally recognized surgeon...yet was almost completely incontinent when the catheter came and for weeks thereafter. However, twelve weeks now since surgery and I have seen significant improvement. As others have mentioned, listen to your health care providers, seriously consider a pelvic floor therapist, pick up a book or two on incontinence...and again, don't get discouraged. As the numbers support, most guys, no matter how incontinent immediately after surgery, ultimately regain continence.