Starting Hormone Therapy
Hello, I am new to this topic. My husband (age 61) was diagnosed with Advanced metastatic prostate cancer (Gleason 4+4, chest bone metastasis). Last month he underwent radical prostatectomy. Yesterday, doctor contacted us with biopsy results. Informing us that some of the removed lymph nodes are malignant and suggesting 3 years of hormone therapy and 3 months after combining with radiotherapy. We are not doing fine, scared. Not to mention that we are already battling thyroid cancer for almost 4 years (regular check-ups every 6 months watch and wait). I need someone to tell me please, how to deal with the hormone therapy? What is your experience? What helped? What should I get him? We are both working full time and he is very much independent. It will change? I have so many questions. Please, could someone share their experience with me? Thank you.
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Hello Jeff, Thank you for your advice. I hope my husband will cope with the hormone therapy and he will be responsive. Yesterday, we got our post operation results from the biopsy and the Gleason score is now 5+4. We caught it late. He is depressed and is giving up. We are confused about why they performed the radical prostatectomy if he could have avoid it and start directly with the ADT. We will find out next week at the appointment with the oncologist.
Regarding the thyroid cancer, it depends about the type and stage. Unfortunately also here we got it late and by removing it it was not solved.
I wish you all the best.
Hi John, many thanks for your advice and thoughts. I will try to convince him to start working out, my husband never did. He is feeling very down and still recuperating after the operation. On the top of it we got our post operation biopsy results and it is Gleason 9 with metastasis to four lymph nodes and pelvis. We need to combine ADT also with radiotherapy due to the chest bones metastasis. This is difficult.
I wish you all the best, good luck with everything!
Hi John, thank you for sharing. My husband had prostatectomy on 5/21/2025. How is your recovering? He is complaining about fatigue, pain in the urinary tract and has severe incontinence. Started with kegel exercises last week and hopefully he will have some improvement. He goes to work daily and is very anxious about the meeting with oncologist scheduled next week. I hope you for your recovery and all the best with everything to you too.
I've been oh hormone therapy(Eligard) for 9 months. Lots of "manapause" and my weight has gone from 165-180. I walk everyday and try to get in a run about twice a week. I also eat healthy so I'm not real sure why I've gained 15. My testosterone is VERY low. Also, tell your husband to try and do resistance training for the muscles. Besides that I can't think of anything else. Oh, sleep can be affected too. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU GUYS!!!!!
Thank you for sharing, I will watch the video and read the paper.
All the best to you!
Eight years on ADT and my weight has been steady at 189 for 20+ years. I get on a scale every day and if I gain a pound I might skip lunch, and I eat less at dinner. Sure, during the holidays I may gain two or 3 pounds but it doesn’t take me more than a couple of weeks to take it off. Pick a weight and try and target it by eating right.
I think the thing that gets people to gain weight is that they have munchies and don’t resist it. If I get munchies, I’ll eat a few pistachios or a piece of fruit an apple or orange (a few grapes these days). That doesn’t seem to put on weight if you don’t overdo it.
Hi, thank you for your advice. Unfortunately the depression and sleep deprivation is already present and we did not even started with the ADT. The male pride makes it difficult and impossible suggesting to ask doctor for a help.
Good luck to you
Quite a few people have the same depression, problem because of diagnosis and treatment. ADT can make depression worse.
People have reported that Wellbutrin really works well for some people in another person reported they’re taking Prozac and it really helps. People said once they started the pills. They had a whole new outlook on life.
Talk to a doctor, Getting that medication can make life A lot more than bearable.
Hi Jime, thank you for your advice and prayer. Sorry to hear that you experienced each side effect while on the Orgovyx. We are going to find out next week when we will start. My husband is self employed, will see how it goes. He is already experiencing fatigue and depression and we did not even started. It will be also difficult to convince him to start to work out as he never did. His life style is work, work and work and enjoying good food.
I wish you and your wife all the best.
Thank you for your advice. I wish you all the best.