I am 7 months post HOLEP. I have been wearing men’s diapers up until 2 weeks ago when I started wearing just pads. I started with using 6-7 diapers per day and kept getting better. I am the one off. Most people (according to my doctor) are back to normal within 6 months. So glad I am not wearing the plastic diapers in this heat. I did kegals for 6 months. It worked for me. Wishing you the best.