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I never remember names of people. Have learned over time that it is to do with social anxiety, if I am not focused on the information, I don't retain it.
I too have used writing names down as soon as possible after meeting people.
I was in the military and loved having name tags to look at...the visual aspect of the name on the name tag always helped me remember. Am a visual learner, not an auditory learner, that makes a difference also.
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My husband says that using yellow stickie notes posted on the microwave is the best solution!
Same with me, remembering names is always a challenge. Retired Navy here, uniform name tags were a blessing and at least you knew how to address someone based on what was on their collar or sleeve.
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I had a similar situation when I worked as a desk clerk in a hotel in Seattle. Our frequent guests would always remember me by name but I had no idea what their names were no matter how often they stayed with us. However, I always greeted them as if I remembered their names and asked them, "Which room did they put you in this time?" Then I could look up their names on the computer. As soon as I saw their names I remembered them.
Thank you so much for your service! I admire people like you who are willing to put your lives on the line to keep this country safe and free! God bless you!
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