Omg, I don't know if I'm more saddened or angry about your father's tragic passing, but sadly I can say that I'm not surprised. I always said that an entry exam for any medical school, collage or university should be a personality test, so that we don't end up schooling more doctors like Mengele. What kind of person do you have to be to intentionally harm another human being? I wouldn't let a dog suffer if I saw one injured on the street, and yet there are doctors who don't lose their sleep when they kill their patients, and refusing to help=killing! How did that come to be? Is there a country on this planet where money and connections don't talk the loudest and where these "doctors" would rot in jail for what they've done? Sign me up if there is....

I'm waiting for the other oncologist to come back from holiday (the one that was supposed to oversee the pluvicto treatment) to talk to him. But going against the head of the department will get me nowhere, since you don't get that title by being the best at what you do but because "someone's got your back". Even if I sued no doctor would testify against another doctor, even if they know the other doctor screwed up, that's just how things roll here.

I also plan to wright a lengthy email to the manufacturer of docetaxel and ask them for an explanation. There is a warning of sepsis on the medication package insert, but clearly doctors don't take it seriously. Something has to change. Chemo should kill cancer, not the patient!

Thank you again for all your kind words. Your family and friend are very lucky to have you! BIG HUG!