Good morning @karen8. Everything has changed drastically and my sons actual conditions are unknown due to lifetime health issues and dont believe covid is even being evaluated with complexities of now at care home and now my inability to advocate for him. Thus why I shared your fiancé is so lucky to have you. Cant recall if I already suggested if you have trauma level mental health provider? That has been the greatest gift in addition to this sites support. Trauma level providers have much deeper knowledge, understanding, and suggestion/referral capabilities to resource levels for this new very complex journey. For me it has also helped with the grief of loosing my old life and son with me while learning techniques to find the joys and love in the simplest things we all can still do🌈