It’s a tough thing to do if you’re not ready. I struggled for years to leave, but always went back. I didn’t fully appreciate the danger I put myself in by staying in tne relationship . Fortunately, I did leave permanently. I stayed until my ex had destroyed the love I had. It dwindled away completely and I eventually had no feelings for the man. At that point, I walked away with no pain, no emotion and no desire to be missed by him. I felt nothing at all about it. I wasn’t even sad. I had cried out all my tears. I was anxious to move on with my life and share it with a kind, emotionally open person who was right there. It was hard to believe I ever loved the ex. I had been under a delusion that he was one thing, but he wasn’t. He was a fake.

I never regretted getting my life back. Beware of people like that. They are good at grooming and love bombing.

Today, I would suggest getting a legal opinion….you may need a restraining order AND a consult with a professional about leaving a toxic relationship. Those with NPD can react violently if disappointed. Have a plan and place to go. Establish a support system. A good therapist is always a plus, imo.

Best wishes with your decision.