Safetyshield, I am so sorry that your mother passed away. I know how she felt and you feel regarding leaving your state of birth. The neighbors back in PA were so kind and helpful. We never felt alone. I also worked in Philadelphia for 25 years before moving to AZ. I can't seem to find a way to connect to the people in the West. I live in a great community and there are activities that are interesting and beneficial. When I finish the activity or class, I leave with a feeling of discouragement. I am extremely friendly and love to be with people but that connection is not here. I will keep trying.

marilyn1942 one of the more detailed way that I was able to cope with my move was to connect with a group of people that have the same hobbies as me. Fortunately a friend of mine back home knew of such a group and gave me a name and I have been part of this gaming group for 13 years now and have met many new people. Also on facebook I have connected with old friends who live in my state and throughout the US. I connect with them daily. It isn't the same as being with them, But it helps. Contacts your neighborhood church or religious organizations may get you started. I realize from you comment about feeling discouragement when you leave the activiites; Is the activities that you have left classes? Can you tell me more of what type of the activites that you have been apart of in AZ. There are activities that I have done to keep me busy or not feeling so alone or depressed. These were not feeling alone activities and when I got home I would feel OK but not as satisfied as being with people with the same interest or people that I can call friends. Well this rant of mine was just food for though and to let you know that you are heard. Keep in contact.

You are such a nice person. I apologize for the delay in my response. Friends from PA have been calling today and I am delighted. I was a runner. I ran and completed a marathon. My time was horrible but I finished. I also loved cycling. I did complete a 25 mile trip. I never attempted to run another marathon. Once was enough. Here in my community I work out on occasion but not nearly as often as I should. Since my husband passed, it isn't much fun getting involved in physical activities. The next time that I open the community web, I will copy the activities and send them to you. Dancing with the Stars will be performing here on 1/20. I can't wait. Thank you for your kindness. Everyone has been so responsive and I feel better. I am getting a little tired so let's talk tomorrow.