I am so sorry that your daughter has disabilities. It must be very difficult for both of you. How old is she? Frustration and fatigue are horrible to deal with. Both my son and I are looking forward to finding a counselor that is a good fit for both of us. We have to do our homework and find the right counselor. I know you understand what I am saying. God bless you and, if you can, please stay in touch.

Thank you @marilyn1942, yes it is challenging to have an adult child living at home, and the disability adds another layer! My daughter is 42 years old, she has never lived on her own but she is engaged to a Canadian and will eventually move to Canada. I so want her to have a normal life! She has been through a lot in her life, and I'm happy that she's found a soulmate. I moved from Southern California to Arizona a year ago, the Phoenix area. I have always lived far from my relatives so it wasn't a big deal for me, except for friends, of course. I'm a Christian, so I found a church and started going right away. I have found many good friends there. Also, joining groups of interest to you is a great way to make friends. I go to Zumba classes. :0) It takes time, though, to build friendships. Hang in there!