Hmmmm, as this is the first time I’ve ever had this surgery the only way of my learning is to compare to others. I certainly am not overly dramatic if you were suggesting that, or am I miserable. Am
I worried? Oh absolutely. This type of surgery can either go really good or really bad. I’m on my own, with very little help. So I think I have every right to be concerned and hoping I’m on the right track. Luckily there have been some people kind enough to politely give me some feedback and reassurance. Thankyou for taking the time to comment though.

Wow, that's really helpful!