" … Obviously, I switched doctors."
It took me a while, Ed, before I realized I had permission to switch doctors. My German Grosmutter had set the tone for our extended family. To her, it was "Yes, Doktor," "Oh, yes, Doktor," "Whatever you say, Doktor." My grandfather, my mother, my dozen uncles. aunts, great-uncles and great-aunts: they all thought of their doctors as king and would never have switched doctors. I can't say for a fact that if they'd switched doctors they'd have lived longer, healthier lives; I do know that a discouragig number of the members of my extended family died young and in pain. I'm grateful that I relate differently to my doctors. With few exceptions, I trear my doctors with respect, but I regard our relationship as teamwork; my best doctors are like coaches: they've the smarts to call good plays but from the sideline. whereas I'm in the game, and like veteran quarterback, I'm seeing the action up close; I'd like to always have the final say, whether the next play will be a downfield toss or a hurry-up running play.
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Ray (@ray666)
Ray - I feel the same way; all of the doctors and/or nurse practitioners are part of the team to keep us going and alive. I feel comfortable when a doctor explains various treatment plans available and together a decision is made on which is best. I have one doctor who likes to take the wait and see approach before doing anything major. I prefer the comeback in 3 or 4 months and let's see how this new med is working. Being part of the decision making allows the patient to be on board and in agreement to the treatment plan.