Hello. I first started with a diary writing my feelings and my interactions with my spouse. I also read my Bible or a good book. I made sure my house was safe. Rugs, bars in the shower and clear walkways. I also made sure all legal stuff was done before he was unable to be part of it. He is mad because he cannot drive. Thank God that happened. He is not the same person in many ways. He is always in a good mood if he is hungry. All responsibilities will fall in your lap. Prepare to be having tons of different emotions. It is ok to be lost and afraid. Do your best. Be prepared to feel alone when he is in your presence. I have been dealing with this issue since 2013. Once in awhile they actually acknowledge your presence and actually thank you or tell you they "Love you". It is the long goodbye for sure. Sorry if I was so candid. I do love my spouse of 52+ yrs. 🫂