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Something called heart failure
Heart & Blood Health | Last Active: Jun 15 7:58am | Replies (12)Comment receiving replies
Hi,
It took a while for me to come to terms with a terminal diagnosis. Yes I thought the world owed me something better, but no, this is life, here one moment possibly gone the next. What I do is concentrate on each day I wake never worrying too much about tomorrow, if I don't wake it is all over anyway. We all die sooner or later so making the best of the time we can graspe is the best we can do. I make sure I fill each day with as much as I can do not wanting to leave anything undone. Death can be sudden and unexpected from may different causes, I don't have the time to be thinking of them. Here and now this very moment is my focus. I sat around waiting for death for a while and all it did was consume me throwing me into depression. I take a possitive attitude, I'm alive now get on with life while I have the chance. I was supposed to be dead 3 years ago but the message never go through! Live for today while you can. I could die from a road accident while waiting for my terminal disease to get me, I'm not waiting, too much to do and not enough time to ponder the odds.
Feel better.
Cheers
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I have lost an aunt and her son to heart failure in there 30. They passed away 40 years ago. I do know they have learned a lot since then. I will get a second opinion. Go to a learning or teaching clinic and hospital.
Do research for yourself. There are a number of websites that are from different teaching clinics and hospitals that will have information for you. Go to Google scholar and see what is there.
I was told alcohol made my family problem worse.
I wish you the best but now it’s time to get your boxing gloves on and fight for it
Wishing you the best
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My fear is not of death, perhaps death will be a salvation. My fear is that I will die before seeing my family, my mother whom I have not seen for 11 years, my father and my brothers. My fear is of sadness that might break my mother’s heart and cause grief to my family. I have never remembered a day that I have hurt or caused any harm to a person, so I do not want to make sad the people who are dearest to my heart. I know that this is life, there is no such thing as eternity, but the fear remains a fear of the unknown.