Honestly I was not referring to you or anyone else, I enjoy reading what others have to say and I also benefit from it. I also have children who went through this with me, they still have scars from their past but they both get therapy and medication to help them heal. I know it’s a heartache and the caregiver is often overlooked, all the attention is directed to the patient, I’m still trying to move forward from my past and I believe it’s a lifelong process, I wish for you healing and peace, amen.