Thank you for your reply. It seems, we both have something in common, also with many others!
I may add to my post that seeking for any options, I just underwent additional extensive hearing tests because of my extreme discomfort with noise. Any noise, like washing dishes in the kitchen sink, a vacuum cleaner nearby, are almost unbearably loud. Setting the HAs to mute helps somewhat, but HAs, I guess, were not meant to be ear plugs.
Furthermore, I was explained that while a typical/normal range of hearing is at 75-80 dB, mine is at 35-40 dB, As I understood it, my “loudness discomfort level” requires “squeezing” the hearing aid adjustments into that 35-40 dB range. Newest HA models will not help improve my very low word recognition, nor help with the loudness discomfort.
Conclusion: I just qualified for Cochlear Implant, initially on one side.
I am trying to understand and learn the details about CI, primarily because I was already told that eventually I may have to chose from one of the 3 FDA approved CI manufacturers. The surgeon and his audiologist will assist with making a choice because there is no trialing, like with HAs.
I decided to accept the challenges, the unknown length of the adjustment phase, as well as any risk related to the procedure. I hope that at my advanced age of 85 I might be able to regain hearing to a better level and be able to enjoy again many things, like participating more in social events or going to classical music concerts, for the remainder of my life.
Extreme sensitivity to noise is a symptom of hyperacusis. It is not common, but when it happens it's usually accompanied by hearing loss and tinnitus. There is some interesting information at the link below.
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/24320-hyperacusis