I had a total hysterectomy and had both ovaries removed in my 40’s (I will turn 70 this year). Think I was 46. It is a big operation, but certainly not the hardest one I had. Be careful not to bend over too much or pick up heavy stuff. Get yourself one of the reacher tools. It is a life saver. Before the operation, arrange house so things you need to grab are at waist high. Follow doctors orders! They tell you it’s a 6 week recovery. In reality, most women I know start feeling like their old self in 6 months to a year. I have had 8 surgeries. The hardest to recover from was a Total Ankle Replacement. With each surgery, I started feeling like my old energetic self at 6 months or more. Hysterectomy did NOT impact on my sex life. Check out: http://www.HysterSisters.com
I found them to be a great source of help. When reading, remember EVERYONE is unique. Focus on yourself and evaluate the information. Will keep you in my prayers.
P.s. I received hormones (pills) to keep me from crashing into menopause.