Hi Honey, I use Kindra V Relief Serum, Honey Pot sensitive wipes & Good Clean Love feminine wash. It seems to help. The longer I’m off the chemo the irritation & burning is better. After my treatments I couldn’t stand anything touching my skin. Felt like my bottom was on fire. I hope you feel better soon. Because of our anatomy women seem to deal with bladder cancer much differently! Praying for you!