Am a mother of four. I also have addictions. I don't need support, I need to make better choices. And I do and have. No one ever "supported" me. It is a personal decision to do without alcohol or drugs. God is the only support you can turn an addicted person on to for support. Addicted people are far beyond needing support. They need God's tough love and loneliness to the point it hurts so bad they either stop or die. Loved ones watching it are the ones who need the support.