My surgery is on Monday anxiety is high
Hi all, having my hip replacement this coming Monday 6/2. My anxiety has kicked in this week and I'm so emotional. I think my fear is the doctor injuring my knee during the procedure. I have 2 bad knees but the hip is giving me a lot of pain. I can't live with this pain anymore. I'm 60 years old and it is stopping me dead in my tracks. I'm assuming it's normal to feel this way during the final countdown. I know I made the right decision with the surgeon I chose.
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It is normal to get yourself freaked out obsessing over your upcoming surgery although there are some knuckleheads (like me) who has no issues with surgery. At 28, I had my first back surgery and would use a local anesthesia when my knee would require arthroscopic surgery. In 2000, my lower back was fused L4-S1 successfully with only periodic bouts of pain, I was fortunate. For a minute. The surgeries kept happening. As of today, I have had over 45 surgeries and I'm almost 64 years of being really old, for the first time in as long as I can remember I went a full year without a surgery (last was April 23, 2024I stroked after surgery). In 2011, I developed pancreatitis, had my first flight aboard a life flight helicopter and was kept in a medically induced coma for almost 3 months and then 45 days in inpatient PT. My surgeries were 6 in left wrists, 4 in both my hands,4 total in lower back, 4 cervical fusions (all at different times), a total reverse shoulder replacement (R) 4 previous surgeries, 2 on my left shoulder and on June 15, 2023 I lost consciousness while driving and drifted into oncoming traffic and collided head on with an oncoming vehicle. I didn't survive it but was returned to life during my 2nd life flight, spent the 1st 6 weeks in a coma. still recovering today. No BS, all true and I wouldn't believe me either. No drugs, no alcohol, no nuthin'. Obviously, I'm accustomed to surgeries now but in the beginning of my surgery streak, shi**** bricks, so I asked the surgeon if I could talk to some patients he'd operated on and got the real scoop from other patients (the doctor's office would reach out tp the prior patients and make sure it's ok with the prior patients). Additionally, I would research as much as I could on the upcoming surgery I was scheduled for, started just reading about the procedures but got braver later where I would watch videos. Knowing more about the upcoming surgery made me a better patient, certainly more knowledgeable. Be an advocate for yourself, it really helps. Promise. Get walking, best exercise you can do but start short distances. Somehow, I received a lemon of a body. I just found out I have a cancerous mass on my right kidney. Stay strong, stay positive and upbeat. Good Luck!!
Bob
Thank you!
BOB!!!! Oh my gosh! God bless you! WOW who am I to be freaking out LOLLLL seems you have more than 9 lives! Thank you for sharing your story with me. I'm sorry to hear about the mass on your kidney. I hope they found it early and you can put this behind you. Thank you for your advice. Wishing you nothing but the best!
Stay positive and don’t let the bad crap keep you down. Fight on!!
Bob
I had my knee replacement on a Monday and it was a long weekend. Like you, I chose my surgeon well and had full faith in him. He always answered my questions and was reassuring. His team was excellent. Yes, there is pre-op anxiety. All the staff realize that and are very comforting.
Good luck on Monday and please let us know how it went. We are all wishing you the best!
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Thanks so much! I know this is their everyday routine and are good at what they do. I will definitely post how it went.
Thank you everyone for your support. Tomorrow is the big day. I appreciate you all sharing your experiences with me. I will post after the surgery and let you all know how it went.
Thank you Genie! You're so right. My husband is my coach and all the meds and times they need to be taken get confusing. They gave us an amazing chart plus we have reminders on our cell phones. He's my rock and so are my 2 grown daughters. I'm fortunate enough to have all this support from my family. Even my 83 year old dad has offered to come and sit with me so I am truly blessed.