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Biopsy confirmed: I have squamous cell carcinoma

Melanoma & Skin Cancer | Last Active: Jun 6 10:45pm | Replies (101)

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@grammato3 Yes, humor keeps us on the sunny side, most times. Otherwise what do we have? I'm in my mid-70s and life has taught me that most of the things I truly fear never come to pass. The other stuff, the truly devastating, I never see coming. I try to remind myself of that. Life is so, so good...so it pays to keep one's wits, one's sense of humor and above all, a sense of gratitude.

@gingerw I think you might've been an awesome pirate in another age: someone who bears the slings and arrows - and scars! - of life, but manages to keep it real and not take it too seriously. I aspire to a similar outlook.

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I'm around the same age, and if what you mean by humor is the same as a general sense of the absurdity of life then I would totally agree with you. With having had SCC about 5 times, including a Mohs surgery (Sept 2023), even my life long sense of the absurd finally has been taken over with a type of PTSD that has caused me almost 2 years of social anxiety and depression. We just press on so we avoid having to think of the alternative.