I am exactly the same the look of my short wide fleshy penis with the skin hanging long over my glans isn't attractive to most, I don't feel comfortable enough to go back to the nude beach or club pool, and always wear a towel in gym shower, my arm muscles are gone, leaving crepe skin, and wrinkles, its so demeaning and depressing I'm trying to enjoy the look of my genitals ,my wife is supportive, but agrees both penis and scrotum have changed so much