Thx for your kind reply. Long covid for nearly 5 yrs has been so life-changing with little help from doctors and then combine adult step-children issues makes my life almost in overwhelm; however, I’ve dealt with adult step- daughter years ago and thankfully our therapist is still in practice and I have a FaceTime session Monday. Hubby is going to find a therapist as he is in denial of both his adult children’s issues so I’m set up to be the bad guy for expressing my perception which is too painful for hubby to deal with so I must work on my part in this as hubby probably won’t change his behavior at age 77 and he avoids conflict and confrontation…. But he’s a wonderful caring supportive hubby as we deal with my long haul issues.