@jlam1950
I am reading comments from people helping people. Most of the comments, from what I can tell have not been specifically directed to you, and your situation. That happens all the time.

As you mentioned in your first post, you are angry, sad and grieving.
Me too. I have dementia, live alone and I’m going to have to sell my home and all my beloved possessions.

You and I could form a club…the sad, grieving, cranky, misty eyed, poor me, what’s next Club.

I need time and space to plan for tomorrow. Who knows where I will be tomorrow or next week. I try to smile, put on my “mask” so I appear “normal” to others. But, it’s exhausting.

What exactly do you mean by using the word “soapbox”?