Hi - I felt almost like I was reading something I wrote myself. I too had utmost faith and trust in my gyn onc when I first was diagnosed. She definitely saved my life and I still would recommend her as a surgeon. But afterwards through follow-up, treatment, now a recurrence and more treatment, the communication progressively became worse. I was 'assigned' a medical oncologist for chemo and felt the communication between them was bad and I always felt caught in the middle. I dreaded appointments with either of them just because I didn't want to interact with them. I feared asking questions and left appointments feeling 'less than' (hard to explain). I didn't want to make a move because everything was so conveniently located and made it so easy on my family and work (less time missed, etc.). Also, the actual care-givers in treatment (nurses, aides, techs) were very lovely. But finally I couldn't take it anymore and I made a change. I am soooooo happy now with the care I am receiving from my current doctors and it makes such a huge difference.

I would encourage you to start at least looking for the right fit. I did and requested a 'second opinion' to get to know the office and doctors a bit. Truthfully, I was afraid my current doctors would know I was looking. (Silly, I know - it's MY life and I am doing what's best for me!) Once I felt comfortable, I made the switch.

My treatment is continuing without a hitch. The extra travel is well worth it. I feel listened to and all my questions are answered respectfully. I leave appointments feeling cared for and not put down.

Bottom line, please do what is best for you. If you are not comfortable with your care team now, find another.

Best of luck!