Thank you so much for all those who have responded to my questions. I have decided to wait, not because I don't need the surgery, but because I don't want to have this done right now --bottom line. And the reason is just that I am afraid, I am here in a small south Texas town, so if I am going to have this done, then I want to go somewhere else, maybe Houston.
The size of my meningioma is 3.1 x 3 x 2.1 cm
Cerebral Parenchyma: well-defined extra-axial T2 heterogeneously hyperintense and T1 isointense lesion in the right anterior frontal convexity. The lesion extends into the parafalcine location and abuts the superior sagittal sinus.
I have no idea what some of these words mean, but I am learning as much as I can everyday. I am glad I found this site and I have been able to find so many answers. The 1st doctor (neurologist) told me back in 6-2024, that these things grow really slow it was at 2.7 cm. So I decided to see a surgeon; I had the second mri in march and these were the results. He recommend a surgery, and at first I said yes, but once I found out the real procedures and all the side effects that can happen, than I decided to try a second opinion. He said I could consider radiation; but this last Monday, the oncologist said he would not do it because radiation is only done to kill cancer cells and that the best thing to do is surgery.

Both doctors said the fact that I do not have any serious symptoms and the location; then I can wait for the surgery. I really really don't want to wait for this to grow and then the surgery will be harder, but I just don't want to go thru this right now. I want to see if I can travel to Houston or San Antonio and maybe there have the surgery. Again thank you so much for your time and information and I will continue to look for your posts. Some of your answers make me feel at ease, and I know that I have to go thru this eventually so for now I hope I can find a good doctor soon.