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If you do not have a psychologist that specializes in helping patients with chronic pain, that would be a good support for you. You may also want to work with a dietitian/nutritionist to review diet/supplements to determine what may best help.

Finding support groups for CRPS would help you as well. Having a spouse that doesn’t understand your condition or show sympathy or empathy is difficult. When you have an invisible pain condition, it is hard for others to understand what someone dealing with chronic pain and suffering is like to deal with daily. If they experienced the pain, they would possibly be more empathetic.

You really need to care for yourself and get the help you need. Trying to get a partner to change is not worth your energy. You need to focus your energies on getting help from others to meet your care needs.

1. https://rsds.org/
2. https://crpswarriorsfoundation.org/
3. https://www.ninds.nih.gov/health-information/disorders/complex-regional-pain-syndrome
4. https://www.acibademhealthpoint.com/finding-crps-support-groups-in-the-usa/
5. https://fighttheflame.org/support-group
6. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/crps-complex-regional-pain-syndrome/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20371156