Thankyou manz, I was overtired when I wrote your message, I meant to say a Nasal gastro tube, not down his throat…he was using one in the hospital after his surgery. No one has mentioned the J tube yet but perhaps they will. Maybe they do things a little differently here in New Zealand but I do know of people using them here.
20 lbs is a good gain, I’m so pleased you have managed to do this, my husband is also quite active and it affects his weight. We are still trying to get the “dumping” sorted. Early days after his surgery I know. Thankyou so much for your answer. If you don’t mind, I will probably message you again. 🙂