Sorry but you clearly do not understand. You are making the very wrong assumption that if your son cuts his parents out of his life that it is normal healthy and somehow the parents fault for not giving them enough freedom or respect . Perhaps you do not have children, any parent who had a healthy relationship with their child and then had that change would see how it makes no sense. We were never overbearing and never gave our opinion about anything only ever wished him well. I miss my son dearly, but i am done begging him to be part of his life. All relationships are a two way street, doesnt work when only one person cares.