My husband and i have experience the same thing. We were always a very close family and then everything ch aged when my son got married. I treated his wife like a daughter and still to this day we have no idea why she turned on us. If someone told me 3 years ago that my son would cut us out of his life and treat us the way he has we never would have believed it. I have sought counseling and continue to pray. Is it this generation? It seems to be common now. Did we raise selfish ungrateful and disrespectful children ? All I know is it is horribly painful and difficult to accept and understand.