There are a lot of variables, so we can just share some ideas and experiences.

If there are just a couple of bone metastases in addition to the lymph nodes, then your cancer is oligometastatic. If there are lots of bone metastases, then it's polymetastatic.

If your cancer response to hormone treatment (PSA goes down after a few months), then it's castrate-sensitive. If not, then it's castrate-resistant. Castrate-sensitive cancer often evolves into castrate-resistant after a few months or years, but new drugs can sometimes delay that process for much longer.

For polymetastatic cancer, treatment will often involve chemotherapy and/or Pluvicto (radiation administered internally). For oligometastatic cancer, they will often radiate each of the metastases, and maybe your prostate as well.

For hormone therapy, in addition to the traditional androgen-deprivation therapy (ADT), you will likely be put on ARSI like one of the -lutamides.

Personally, I've have oligometastatic, castrate-sensitive prostate cancer since 2021, and treatment has prevented any progression since then.

Best of luck.