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A 15 year Wife's Roadmap to Deal With Your PCa Husband

Prostate Cancer | Last Active: May 4 6:52pm | Replies (36)
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@heavyphil

You’ve got to be kidding, Hans! Someone complained about your posts and you’re just gonna take your ball and go home?
I think we’re all a little too old by now to let other people’s opinions bother us, no? You certainly had no problem criticizing your doctors and your medical care, but now you can’t take criticism yourself?? I’m very surprised and disappointed with your decision…
Phil

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hans_casteels | @hanscasteels | Apr 30 7:43am

Thanks for the note. I’m not taking my ball and going home; I’m simply choosing not to keep playing in a game where the referee is invisible and the rules change depending on who’s doing the heckling.

I’ve got no issue with reasoned disagreement — you’ve seen me debate doctors, treatments, and the absurdity of it all. But I draw the line at anonymous swipes and the kind of passive-aggressive muttering that masquerades as “feedback.”

Life’s short. Energy is finite. I choose to invest mine where the discourse is a little more grown-up. If that disappoints you, fair enough. Meantime, I’ll continue to offer opinions and recount experiences. If you want access to unbridled full versions, go to Substack and look for @nutmegphantasy. That my alias there. And it’s completely free.

All the best,
Hans

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hans_casteels | @hanscasteels | Apr 30 7:47am

… and you’re right. I do find myself being a drama queen these days. Or is it drama king? Hard to know these days.

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