Good for you, @catartist! That sounds like a good topic for family therapy! That's what I was hoping for, and I do love my therapist, but he's got health issues himself and is quite terrified. We have to remember these are human being just like us. I'll stick with him, but it was disappointing that we cannot have a dialogue about this. Peace and Every Good! And I agree with you, a discussion group about dying would be great. That's what I am searching for. But no one is in more death denial than our healthcare industry, so for now, we are on our own.