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@itisi Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. I'm happy that you found us and that we are helpful to ou.
What a confusing and frustrating road you've been on to get the spotting examined. With all the reading I have done, for instance, on the American Cancer Society website, Mayo Clinic website, and others I now understand that any spotting that occurs after menopause is a warning sign and there must be follow-up. Your primary doctor's comment about just going out and enjoying your life dismissed your quite valid concerns. When my father was about the same age as you and found a lump in his neck he was told the same thing by an ENT specialist who just thought my dad was "too old" to worry about something like this. I was furious and so eventually my father got a referral to Mayo Clinic where he was kindly and thoroughly evaluated. That was my first experience at Mayo Clinic and I will never forget how wonderful the doctors and all staff were to my dad.
Now, back to you. Ah, you are one persistent and tenacious woman! I admire you for never giving up. How terrible that the two prior procedures were cancelled by the anesthesiologist and no one every contacted you again after that. So, finally your primary care doctor made the referral to another gynecologist. In a few days, during the instructions and prior to the procedure you can finally ask your questions and get your concerns out there.
I am wishing you compassionate staff and physicians who listen to you. You are a very wise individual who communicates your needs and wants clearly. Do you have a friend who can go this instructions appointment with you? This friend is another set of "ears" who will support you, listen, and make sure that you are listened to. I am 73-years-old and I always take someone with me to my appointments.
Will you please let me know what happens at your appointment?