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What do you say when you ask for second opinion ?

Posted by surftohealth88 @surftohealth88, 3 days ago

What do you say when you ask for second opinion - do you openly say that you are seeking "second opinion" or you pretend that it is the first one ? Do you mention "first opinion" findings at all or you just listen to second opinion and keep your mouth shut ?

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chippydoo | @chippydoo | 1 day ago

I called the best in town at a CCC research hospital and was upfront that I was looking for a second opinion and the possibility of changing physicians. They obtained all biopsy slides, scans and data from my provider. When I sat down with him, he read me my story through the data.

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bluegill | @bluegill | 1 day ago

My experience was that asking nicely for a second opinion got me nowhere. My urologist strongly discouraged me. When I finally went to Mayo, my uroligist's office refused to send them my records, even after repeated requests from Mayo. Finally they relented.

I just called my urologist's office last week (miraculously, a human actually answered the phone) and I canceled all my upcoming appointments.

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surftohealth88 | @surftohealth88 | 1 day ago
In reply to @bluegill "My experience was that asking nicely for a second opinion got me nowhere. My urologist strongly..." + (show)
@bluegill

My experience was that asking nicely for a second opinion got me nowhere. My urologist strongly discouraged me. When I finally went to Mayo, my uroligist's office refused to send them my records, even after repeated requests from Mayo. Finally they relented.

I just called my urologist's office last week (miraculously, a human actually answered the phone) and I canceled all my upcoming appointments.

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I am so sorry to hear that you had to endure that :(((

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bluegill | @bluegill | 1 day ago

It's striking how ignorant I was about prostate cancer when I got the diagnosis. But learning about the condition was only half the battle; the other half is how to deal with people in the medical system. I'm still learning a lot about that aspect.

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dpfbanks | @dpfbanks | 1 day ago
In reply to @proftom2 "Small town, local hospital, local oncologist/great guy, my radiation oncologist gets her morning coffee same place..." + (show)
@proftom2

Small town, local hospital, local oncologist/great guy, my radiation oncologist gets her morning coffee same place I do. Their hospitals culture is epically caring/kindhearted and very helpful.

Big city, medical school, my oncologist/professor is brilliant, radiation/imaging department always equipped with the best technologies available and the knowledge of how to use them. I know they are very busy, caring as they can be, kind hearted, very helpful and great at what they do.

I built Second Opinions into my treatment plan/journey. Both oncologist use the same MyChart system, they are fully aware of each others services, help my survivorship collaboratively.

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Especially like
"help my survivorship collaboratively"

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