In response to your wife's comments - I do not understand how "writing" and "connecting" with support group is NOT a way of therapy (???) . It is very well known and documented fact. Even if it was not the fact (which it is), you obviously have a need to express yourself through writing and it must be helping you on some level, or you would not do it, right ? I find her comments dismissing and patronizing to be honest :(. Perhaps she feels excluded or "not enough" ?