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@ray666

I had a lunchtime chat with my partner about what she says is her worsening anxiety. She says she was never anxious when she was younger. That's why she's finding her present day anxiety so alarming. Her biggest concern this morning is finding a sign at the base of a grand old tree a short ways from our house. The sign said the tree had been slated for cutting down. My partner admitted to being almost paralyzed with anxiety over the threatened loss of a favorite tree. (I was less anxious than angered.) I suggested to my parther that one way to lessen anxiety over a situation is to 'do something,' most anything, a phone call, and visit to a neighbor's to see if concern is shared. So the two of us starting making phone calls. Tomorrow someone from theforestry service is coming to talk to us about what might yet be done to spare the tree. I was happy to hear my partner say that the moment she began telephoning, her anxiety began to lessen. I think there's a lesson in all this: don't dwell, just 'do."

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@ray666

Hi Ray
Thanks again for the reply and good advice… thanks for taking the time to share that story… I feel like I’m not alone in this when people get back to my posts on this topic…and your advice to ‘do’ is well taken… when I’m at my worst with the morning anxiety , 😥 I get up and get dressed and start moving….emptying the recycles, dusting the floors even getting up or occasionally changing recessed light bulbs on the ladder 🪜.. I make coffee and I get going…like your partner , I also never remember being as afraid or worried about 💭💭whatever may be coming.. when I was younger, I went anywhere, did just about every travel mode and never once had an anxiety attack… things change for many when they get to a certain age point…yes, it makes me feel better to know that there are people who take the time to reply to someone
with a problem…
Good Luck 🍀 with your tree and Best Wishes to you both….
Tom @pvctom2021