Female here, age 69. I really lost my sex drive a few years ago. I could almost tell to the day when my estrogen levels dropped. I had sex with my husband, and it was suddenly so dry and painful. It was like someone scrubbed my insides with a Brillo pad and then lit it on fire! It hurt to walk for a few days. I felt bad for my husband, and eventually got things figured out. First, I had to deal with low estrogen, so got on a patch and then some estradiol cream to thicken the vaginal lining back up. At the same time, I was trying to treat osteoporosis after suddenly fracturing my spine (not a good place mentally or physically to be).

The back healed, I got on injections for the bone health and as a last bit, got put on testosterone cream, which would help bones and give a boost to the libido.
The testosterone cream has made me feel like a horny 18 y/o boy! It's astonishing, and I love it. I want to have sex all the time. My husband had to actually turn me down a few times, and I guess it's my karma for doing that to him before I got this treated.. I seriously think my dose is too high, because my preoccupation with sex now is pretty intense. I just had a blood level drawn and will halve the amount of cream I am using. It's seriously crazy.
I always liked sex as a younger woman, but of course, you had to be "a nice girl," and not run around or you'd get called a slut. But now, I wouldn't even care about that. When I start thinking about going to some dive bar and propositioning strange guys, it's time to cut back on the dose. Holy Moly!

Hormones!!! Just shows that we all have that animal brain inside that can come out with the right hormones.

So get your lady friend or wife on some testosterone. I can't be the only one to be affected this way. Just be ready to get chased around the house.