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@imallears @phoenix @itchyd Update: I explained to her that I didn't want to be friends with her anymore. She asked why, and I explained that I had asked you to stop, and you wouldn't. She's also been talking to my boyfriend, which I'm very confused about, especially since we aren't friends. I get being friendly to him if you see him with me, but to be flirty-eyed and talk to him without me there is odd.

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Hi;
Thanks for the update. Glad you made a decision and followed through on it. Sounds like you were clear about your reason so she couldn’t misunderstand.
Not sure what’s going on with the boyfriend; my first thought is retaliation.
I and @sueinmn suggested being prepared for possible retaliation and having a plan in place.
It’s not easy, but try to stay calm and not let it get to you.
I think it really is a good idea to talk this over with a trusted adult who’s on the scene.
Let us know how you do.