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Geographical location affects you mentally?

Mental Health | Last Active: Apr 19 2:52pm | Replies (63)

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I moved from Minnesota to Arizona as I had traveled there several times before I moved there. I was really looking forward to more sunshine and being able to be outside more. My first location turned out to be a nightmare because of the job I took. I was so worried I’d have to move back to Minnesota but found a job in a town I really knew nothing about only 40 miles but much higher altitude. It was hard to move again after only six months but things fell together and now I have been in Northern Arizona for just over 20 years. I was scared and sad initially as my dream job failed. I think location is an important part in having happiness in where you live, yet I was in Arizona where I wanted to be, just a bump in the road. I tried to look at the positives of my move and it also helped me to see that it would take to settle in. I could have moved back to Minnesota, but I realized I was capable and just to be patient with myself. I tried not to beat myself up about it, which is hard for me, and that in itself was. boost. It’s hard to move out of our comfort zones, and I think it is important to look at our reasons for our decisions. Sometimes it’s more about having courage to look at what really is important to us. I hope you find peace in whatever you decide to do and remember to stop and smell the roses. (Sorry for the long comment)

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You're comment may have been long but it was enjoyable and informative to read. I consider "environment" to be everything interacting with one's self. So in your case it wasn't the place but the social (employment) situation that changed.

I think I was hoping someone would say something about how the location itself and the culture create an environment that is difficult or easy for most people. You know like some places are just awful with a bad climate, unattractive geography, a lot crime, rude people, litter, etc.. Some places are great with mild climates, beautiful scenery, low crime, clean, etc.. I think the "happy countries" do things that actually create the happiness because it's easy in their geographical location. Unhappy places are simply stuck due to certain conditions, such as an uncomfortable climate.