Omg! Your husband failed you when you needed him most! I couldn’t even imagine how it felt when the ones who were supposed to be there for you failed to do so during your darkest days. I’m glad you cut them out of your life. I would have done the same. You’re right. There is no excuse for lack of compassion, especially from friends and family. Those aren’t friends or family. Even animals show compassion. (I witnessed my guppy coached his/her mate to swim when its mate was sinking from illness). I’m glad that you found the lump and now in remission. I hope you find comfort here. We’re on the same boat and we are here for one another. 🤗