@hanscasteels wrote

«No genetic testing. Because who needs to know if i have BRCA mutations or other hereditary markers that might scream, “Hey, this cancer might be more aggressive than it looks!”?»

That sounds very frustrating. The cancer centre here did my genetic testing through Invitae, a U.S. firm. They just asked my permission, took a sample, and then mailed it off. I was able to see the results online in a few weeks (that's how I know I don't have the BRCA1/2 mutations). It might be worth mentioning it to your care team again, since it costs them practically nothing.

It's frustrating that the quality of care varies so much, depending on where you live and which oncologist you land with. We've even had a few people here in the forum report problems at top facilities like Mayo.

Are you certain it wouldn't be possible/practical to get into a different facility, like Princess Margaret in Toronto (an hour away from you)? I don't think you'd have to give up your current care until you were accepted there.

I hope things improve for you. Here's the link to the firm that did my genetic testing:
https://www.invitae.com/