You are letting the dog win. You and Hubby should just go. If the pup is housebroken and not destructive let him holler. Take him out to relieve himself before you go. He will eventually get over it. Probably always holler just before and after you leave. Your decision to rescue him was good. He will repay you with joy and companionship. My Bichon is 10 now. I'm 81. I purchased her as a pup for our 48th anniversary. The best purchase I ever made. My wife and I enjoyed having her around so much. My wife died 2 years ago. This pup has followed me on my heels ever since. The pup actually went through a period of mourning. For about 2 weeks she searched for my wife room to room whining. She was very lethargic during that time. The only problem I found with small pups is tripping over them. Since she has taken to closely following me, I have fallen hard twice. Nothing broke. I just pay closer attention now. Hang in there and enjoy the pup. Don't let him win. Let him holler. Don't give him a lot of attention when he acts up, just leave and enjoy your time out.