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Update: It's a little over a month since the men left. It has been like a different apartment complex. So quiet and peaceful. I still get a little nervous coming back to the building and I wonder about any possible retaliation from the men or their "friends". That's probably not going to happen though.

BUT tonight I got very angry that I moved to this city to be near a very sick relative and gave up so much and for this living nightmare to happen to me! This was pure hell as I indicated in my previous postings. You know what I used to do after dinner where I used to live? I used to go for a walk along the sea wall at sunset and I usually came back after dark without a care in the world. There was like a near zero chance that someone would threaten me! I literally do not remember one instance of crime where I used to live. It's not all bad here, at least this side of town, but it just makes me so mad that this happened to me.

Thanks for listening. It feels good to vent. If I can help anyone I will tell them what I learned; At the first sign of trouble where you live don't wait to report it to the police AND landlord. You can do this and ask for anonymity. Do it immediately! Then each and every time it happens. You must report it to BOTH. They need to work together to eliminate the problem by legal means. Stay in close touch with them until the trouble has been permanently eliminated. Don't waste time thinking it will go away on it's own or that one report to the landlord will do it. It can but it might not and like my situation go on and on and on and on and on until it causes you mental and physical distress. Don't let this happen to you!

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robertwills, thanks for the advice. And cheers to you for giving up the sea for the relative that needs your help.