Stage 3 Triple Negative Breast Cancer: Don't know what to expect

Posted by kevachanel38 @kevachanel38, Feb 25 10:39am

So I was just Diagnosed with Stage 3 Triple Negative Breast Cancer 2/18/2025 I’m 38 years old , I start my first chemo treatment March 14 , I don’t know what to expect , emotions are still through the roof, can anyone give me advice on what to expect from this whole situation im very scared, nervous and anxious…Thank you in advance

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Absolutely true… look before you leap down the food/supplement isle. I brought half my food back as I diligently looked up every nutrient and vitamin when I got home. I totally was taking too much d3… and felt fatigue that is now gone… it wasn’t taxol… or maybe it was and I just magically lost that feeling.
It would be silly to let someone else make your diet without looking it up before you buy it… I’d totally like to hear if either ginger tea, quinoa or plant protein wasn’t a good thing for tnbc and chemo… it’s good to share what nutrition we learn about… diet means success in a lot of ways… it’s not a cure… but a bad diet isn’t a good thing…. Or I’d be the 1st to chow down a cheeseburger and fries…

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@colleenyoung

@alisa1, I'm glad that you found inspiration and helpful tips from a fellow cancer survivor, Amy Morris. It helps to hear from others who have been there.

For Everyone:
Eating healthy, exercise, not smoking, etc., we all know are good for us. And yes, healthy living can help to reduce our risk of recurrence or getting cancer in the first place. Unfortunately, cancer happens to some people even when we do everything "right".

For this reason, I would like to add some tips on how to evaluate resources. Do your due diligence.

There are red flags for me reviewing Dr. Amy's website and videos.
1. She makes promises that can't be guaranteed. For example, she stated that you can take "exact steps that eliminate side effects and stay cancer free for life"
No on can keep that promise to you. They shouldn't proclaim it as fact. We are all different. No one can guarantee cancer-free for life.

2. She is a doctorate of pharmacy, not an medical physician or oncologist.
I'm the first to tell you that pharmacists are an important member of your health care team. They are knowledgeable, accessible and often helpful, expecially when reviewing medications, possible interactions and counselling how best to take medications.
However on her website, she is not clear about her degree and it is misleading that she calls herself the cancer expert and Dr. Amy.

3. She is selling promises. Often where there is hope, there is hype. Buyer beware before spending your money.

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Thanks @colleenyoung for the reminder that cancer can happen even when you do everything right.

Also, thanks for pointing out that qualifications and credentials matter when it comes to what source we choose to follow and where we get treatments.

Navigating breast cancer and treatment and recovery is so complex, even with the best-trained people. And mistakes do happen.

(I would hope that when patients experiment complications or questionable care, that they have the ability to seek other help either at that same hospital or at a different hospital. But I realize that, unfortunately, may not always be possible.)

I’m glad that this Mayo platform helps us sort through the many, many choices and challenges with breast cancer treatment.

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@susan7656

@kevachanel38 - hey there. Thanks for the update. Wanted to encourage you and say hang in there! You’re not alone.

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Thank you so much and I am hanging in there !!!!

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@moshi

4th Taxol treatment for me today… every Monday, then off to the big 3 together for the last 4 biweekly treatments. So happy to hear another chemo warrior is bringing ginger into there lives… I drink a brew I make all day long. I also make a quinoa and chia seed mush. Look it up… great nutrition. Big problem is iron and potentially anemia… I don’t eat red meat. Sooo, I added a plant protein powder into my smoothie.. we shall see how my iron is today.
I love my rolling cooler… it’s awesome. That and a backpack with my headphones, laptop, iPad and blankey… I’m battling not being a thumb sucker… lol
Be brave, be strong, be beautiful… we are warriors.

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I am going to look that one up , and my problem is anemia as well thanks for the advice , I hope you are during well during your treatments and I wish you the best as these treatments can really take a lot out of you , but like you stated we are warriors and WE GOT THIS !!!!

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@colleenyoung

@alisa1, I'm glad that you found inspiration and helpful tips from a fellow cancer survivor, Amy Morris. It helps to hear from others who have been there.

For Everyone:
Eating healthy, exercise, not smoking, etc., we all know are good for us. And yes, healthy living can help to reduce our risk of recurrence or getting cancer in the first place. Unfortunately, cancer happens to some people even when we do everything "right".

For this reason, I would like to add some tips on how to evaluate resources. Do your due diligence.

There are red flags for me reviewing Dr. Amy's website and videos.
1. She makes promises that can't be guaranteed. For example, she stated that you can take "exact steps that eliminate side effects and stay cancer free for life"
No on can keep that promise to you. They shouldn't proclaim it as fact. We are all different. No one can guarantee cancer-free for life.

2. She is a doctorate of pharmacy, not an medical physician or oncologist.
I'm the first to tell you that pharmacists are an important member of your health care team. They are knowledgeable, accessible and often helpful, expecially when reviewing medications, possible interactions and counselling how best to take medications.
However on her website, she is not clear about her degree and it is misleading that she calls herself the cancer expert and Dr. Amy.

3. She is selling promises. Often where there is hope, there is hype. Buyer beware before spending your money.

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Thanks for this information. I did not "buy-in to her program financially." She had some lifestyle changes and other beneficial information that benefited me from my healing and recovery. The tidbits I did walk away with from her videos, my oncologist relayed some of the same information.
Being a cancer survivor herself, I found some of her information to be relatable and relevant to my own journey. This is just my personal experience.

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