On a positive note you are still alive. I have a prostate so your story was interesting to me but the women here don't have one. I'm 72 with an enlarged prostate and I don't want another prostate exam. My PSA is normal so maybe my prostate should be left alone.

I have kidney stones so I see an urologist every year for a follow-up visit to monitor my kidney stones. I have an abdominal ct-scan every year and every year the report says enlarged prostate. The kidney stones are still there but not causing any problems. The recommendation is to leave the kidney stones alone too as long as they aren't moving anywhere.

"For individuals aged 55 to 69 years, the decision to undergo periodic PSA-based screening for prostate cancer should be an individual one. Before making the decision, a person should discuss the potential benefits and harms of screening with their clinician and consider these in the context of their own values and preferences.

PSA-based screening for prostate cancer is not recommended for individuals 70 years and older."
https://www.cancer.gov/types/prostate/psa-fact-sheet