wow… yeah, sounds like your husband and I might get along too well—stubborn, allergic to mainstream paths, and convinced the scenic route is secretly the shortcut.

I totally hear you though. Stage 4 isn’t exactly the time to be auditioning alternative strategies like it’s America’s Got Experimental Therapies. It’s terrifying when time is tight and someone you love is betting on maybe’s and what-ifs.

You’re in a tough spot—caught between respecting his choices and screaming into a pillow. (Highly recommend the pillow, by the way. Preferably one you don’t need to sleep on.)

Sending strength—and a very dry martini, emotionally speaking. Let’s see what unfolds, one impossible day at a time.