Karyna, I so empathize and commiserate with what you are enduring. It's so important for you to be able to have a means of dealing with your symptoms, particularly since you are getting married in such a short time from now. That should be a GLORIOUS EVENT FOR YOU, and I don't want you to live in dread with not knowing how your body and mind will behave. I got help from a trusted neurologist, not from the clueless primary who had prescribed Effexor years before I decided to take back control of what was happening to me. Please see about getting in to see a neurologist who can guide you, assist you, HELP you. Effexor is a horrid drug, and yes it can be hell to get off it. But I don't recommend doing it alone, especially with such a happy event coming up. Strongly advise that you avoid ALL alcoholic beverages (as in toasts at rehearsal dinner, bridal showers, and day of wedding itself). I also do not advise taking on another medication as a "bridge" as so many members have written that they have done. GET MEDICAL HELP.
I have you in my daily prayers, Karyna. Please don't continue this difficult journey on your own. There's another important reason: Stopping this drug abruptly or ineffectively can cause cardiac issues, including reported deaths. That was another reason why I sought medical assistance with the tapering/getting off Effexor: I've had irregular heartbeats for years, and there is history of cardiac disease and deaths on both sides of family tree. The drug created issues with blood pressure which I didn't have this prior to the drug. To this day, I deal with blood pressure issues, AND the irregular heartbeats, and I'm on 2 blood pressure medications.
I'd appreciate knowing what you decide to do, and your progress. 🙏🏽🌺 God bless you and your hubby-to-be.
@delia74 thank you so much for the kind, thoughtful response. It really means a lot to me. Getting in for an appointment is tricky right now but at least I have one scheduled. Good news though, the symptoms that bothered me most have improved. Nausea is gone and brain shocks are occasional. For some reason pineapple has been helpful. Green tea and sunlight are good (I was repulsed by coffee for a while). Running was not easy at first but I persisted and it's been getting better. I've been a runner for 12 years and now I see myself running for life. It sure beats Effexor as an anti-depressant. Coping with stress is important too (yoga, meditation, deep breathing). I'm taking micronutrient supplements daily, trying to get 7 hrs sleep each night, and checking in with coach, counselor and friends. I'm feeling optimistic for my wedding day but I appreciate your prayers anyway! Thank you so much. I hope you are well. 🍵