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Aging Well | Last Active: 10 hours ago | Replies (22)
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@sillyblone

I will for you. We have been married so long. I can see the writing on the wall. But, I am not God. He decides those things. I am pretty certain my husband is going into Stage 5. good.I have lost alot of him in the last year. It feels like he is not doing as well as I had hoped for. But I will live each day as if it the first day we met in high school. I am not perfect and neither is he. We both say stupid things..I am sorry has to be said and my behavior needs to be the best that I can muster. Sometimes I cry into my pillow, shower or in the car. We have lost 4 people in the last 2 years. Love and being a good caregiver is my best defense. Hugs to you and your husband. I think you understand how I feel..coz you have been going through this illness with him. 🫂

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pml | @pml | 3 days ago

Hi,
Thank you for the prayer! I'm sorry I was not clear about my husband. He died in July, 2024. However, I know he's up in Heaven with God and Jesus and out of breathlessness and pain. We will be together in Heaven eventually in God's time like you said. I was terribly lonely at first but my very nice neighbors have all been so kind in many ways. It really helps since I have no family left. They are all up in Heaven too! (I'm 78). It's been 10 months since my husband died and it does get easier to cope with in time.

I'm so glad that you have God in your life. It makes all the difference when you are dealing with an ill loved one. That's sad that you had four other people die recently. It's hard to deal with that. Do you have family to support you?

I think that's so nice that you are showing love and caring for your husband at this time! He needs that now. It's very scary to be so ill. I like your remark about living each day like it was the first day we met in High School. That's very sweet. Crying is normal no matter where you cry. It shows you care and love him very much.

I wish you both the best and will remember you in my prayers.
PML

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