I was in the same boat with the taxes and this is how I worked around it. I told my husband that he needed to have the taxes done and filed by a date certain….and if he missed that date, I was going to make an appointment with HR Block. He agreed.

Well, 3 weeks went by and he had made NO efforts to do them. So I told him, we’re getting close to the deadline. I am going to go on-line to make an appointment with HR Block “just in case.”He agreed. HR Block assigned us a Tax Advisor and we were encouraged to start uploading documents in advance of our appointment….but had still not committed to having HR Block prepare them. And then our Tax Advisor said, “I have everything I need. Can I start preparing your returns.” At this point, I did NOT consult my husband and simply said to the Tax Advisor, “Go ahead.” I then waited until my husband was in a good mood and relaxed later in the evening and said “Hey! HR Block said that they have everything that they need from us and can prepare the return and we can just review and sign it at our scheduled appointment. It seems so easy so I just told him to go ahead,” And my husband agreed!

I actually think that my husband knew that he would have trouble preparing our tax returns but was too proud to admit it….and I gave him an easy way to hand off that responsibility to someone else. Just a suggestion to see if it can work for you,