That's a lot of information 😂

I also had sex quite often prior to surgery, fearing that it could be a while or never. I bet a large number of guys take care of business one way or the other beforehand. I'll never forget my personal trainer asking "so are you you and your wife having sex like all the time now?" my response was "imagine if you were to get sewn up, what would you do?". So it was a yes, lol.

Dry orgasms take a minute to get used to but haven't been bad - for me. I know some men have painful orgasms, and the first couple of times I orgasmed after about a month post-surgery there was perineal pain but it got better over time and experience. Now, I'm sort of used to it and I've had a couple that were pretty intense, perhaps even more than before. And I didn't appreciate it nearly as much before, but the "no mess" benefit is actually convenient.